Understanding the Meaning of "It Takes a Village"

I don’t think I knew what to expect walking into Boston Birth Village as a new intern. Starting here just a few weeks ago has already taught me more than I could ask for. 

As a Master of Social Work student entering my final year at Boston University, I knew I wanted to work more closely with parents, families, and babies. Before this placement, I worked in a major Boston hospital where the environment was incredibly fast-paced and emotionally demanding. While I learned a lot there, I found myself wanting to better understand the human side of care; the quieter moments, the emotional processing, and the importance of connection and community. 

Coming to the village, I honestly had no expectations. What surprised me most was how quickly parents opened up. 

Over the past few weeks, I’ve had the opportunity to observe support groups, speak with moms, connect with pediatricians, learn from different team members about their roles, and check in with mothers who recently gave birth. Every conversation has reminded me how unique each person’s experience is. There is no single “right” way to experience pregnancy, birth, or motherhood. 

One experience that has stayed with me most is the Wednesday moms group. Sitting in a room with first-time, second-time, and third-time moms and hearing them speak so openly about their experiences has been so incredibly moving. Some cry. Some laugh. Some share frustrations, fears, exhaustion, or joy. What stands out most is the reminder that all of those emotions and experiences are welcome here.

There is something so powerful about telling someone: “Whatever you’re feeling is okay.” 

I’ve learned that nothing can fully prepare someone for birth or motherhood. Every story is different, every family is different, and every parent carries their own challenges and strengths. But one thing has become very clear to me: community is everything. 

We hear the phrase “it takes a village”, but being here has shown me what that truly means. Caring for a baby also means caring for the parent. It means making space for honesty, vulnerability, support, and connection. Human connection matters deeply - whether it comes from family, friends, professionals, or even people you’ve only just met. 

This experience has also helped me better understand my own passion for this work. I care deeply about making sure moms and parents do not feel like they have to carry the weight of the world alone. There are people who want to help, listen, support, and walk alongside them. 

As I continue this journey, I feel both excited and nervous for everything still ahead. But more than anything, I feel grateful to be learning in a space that reminds people they are seen, supported, and never alone.